Marriage and Sex in a life
One of God’s most powerful gifts is sex. It is designed to connect men and women with physical, emotional and spiritual bonds that create happiness, intimacy and fertility. A marriage that ignores or misuses then this gift is a source of frustration and perhaps divorce. I remember, one of my friends filed for divorce soon after her marriage, may be for some other reasons were also involved.
As a last resort, she decided to consult the psychologist, advised to have sex on alternate days for a month. Their marriage gave them a new impetus to move forward. For the first time, they say, “Strong marriage requires more than sex, but strong marriage is impossible without it!” Now they are very happy with each other and have children. So, Can marriage without sex survive?
However, In the beginning of the marriage, your sex life is more passionate because of less responsibilities and more hormones .But it can’t take longer. Remember, your marriage at the very beginning and ask yourself what the differences came? Or what does it make when your partner is more interested in sex? Examine your conditions and reproduce them.
Usually, Women also complaint that they are never touched or kissed by their husbands unless they want sex, this always turn them off. May be she wants you to hold hands, hug, sit next to her or kiss her in a way that are affectionately but not sexually. Women say that men cannot hug unless their hands slide down slowly. Every touch should not means of foreplay.
Think about, Why sex after marriage is important? To be happy couple, Great sex is being seen as one aspect of a good marriage. However, in most cases, an unsatisfying sex life is the number one complaint of an unsatisfying marriage. I personally believe that marriage is more than sex, but that sex is still an important part of marriage. In truth, my husband and I had a wonderful marriage. We are life partners. And we don’t have sex twice a week. Sometimes a month goes by. It’s just. But that doesn’t mean that we aren’t physically connected to each other every day. We hug, we kiss, we caress each other’s bodies. We communicate freely about our desires, including parts of our sexual desires. I am no longer a sexually dissatisfied woman and I have to thank my husband for that.
If you want to determine Why marriage sex is better? or where you really are in a relationship, take a look at your sex life. Because sex is not only the satisfaction of a physical need, but also the satisfaction of an emotional and spiritual need. For your husband, sex is how you show him that you love him. For him, it is an emotional act and women love each other because we feel loved. It is an expression of a healthy marriage and is worth fighting for.
Most women cannot intercourse out of marriage because some kind of bond and feeling of guilt or for fear of being caught, for fear of pregnancy and much more. All of these (disturbing) factors primarily reduce the pleasure of premarital sex for women. The relationship between a man and his wife is an important aspect of human existence. It’s not just about sex or intercourse; it’s about love and affection. Marriage without sex is called Mariage blanc.
The relationship between the man and his wife is based on three things:
1. Romantic, they two love with each other;
2. They share their feelings and thoughts.
3. Sex within marriage is emotion with motion.
Not having sex after marriage or you’re wondering why sex should be limited to marriage, think about sex like “fire.” Fire is very good to use and enjoy. Put it in the fireplace and it will give the whole house warmth and light. But if you spread the fire throughout the house and ignore the safety limits of the fireplace, people will be in a fire. A wedding is like a fireplace. It’s a great place to enjoy a strong gift of sex. Ignoring gender specificity in marriage, a person is always emotionally and/or physically “burned”.
Marriage and sex according to the bible from the beginning of creation “God made them male and female”. It goes on to declare, “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh” (Mark 10:6-8, ESV, quoting Genesis 1:27 and 2:24).
God wants your sex life to be Wonderful but the person you marry needs to be awesome.